HEART OF THE METALHEAD 2

Got this from Marcus Twan's facebook notes.



Before you can grow up, you must fall in love 3 times.



Once you must fall in love with your best friend, ruining your friendship forever. This will teach you who your true friends are, and the fine line between friendship and more.



Once you must fall in love with someone you believe to be perfect. You will learn that no one is perfect, and that you should never be treated as any less than you deserve.



And once you must fall in love with someone that is exactly like you. This will teach you about who you are, and who you want to be.



And when you’re through with all that, you learn that the people who care about you the most are the ones that you hurt, and the ones that hurt you are the ones that you needed the most.



But most of all, you learn that love is only a concept and is not something that can be defined, it is different to each person that experiences it.



And you will learn to respect each and every person on this earth, knowing that everyone only wants to be loved.

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I feel that this piece of ideology makes sense.

Just like Jiraiya said,

"Rejection makes a man stronger."



Reading this also brings back my past memories.

The times where I felt what I did back then was...

inappropriate.

The times where Grace and I were the best of friends.

In the next part I'm going to share my thoughts between me and her relating to the given text.

Note that I usually do not share with friends about this.



We first met at Nafa in december 2005.

I found her to be extremely cute and pretty.

She found me cute and hilarious.

When I looked at her and smiled, she would laugh her head off.

Still remember that scene.

Just impossible to forget.

Then we got to know each other better.

Chatting on msn, sms, going out,etc.

Becoming best of friends was inevitable.

This, coincidentally, satisfies the first love.



As we chatted and met up more often, I began to feel that she was just best girl ever.

Quiet, yet sociable.

And super cute and pretty.

Just perfect.

Second love.



On closer observation.

Grace and I are pretty similar.

We both play Dizi.

We both are the quiet type.

We both are from good schools.

We are under the same Dizi teacher.

We both wear our watches on our right hand.

We both have few close friends.

And the list goes on.

The 3rd love is present.



Now that I have been through these 3 loves,

I feel a stronger, matured person.

Especially after that one sms and 3 years of "Dao".

I realised that the reason I had such feelings for her was actually because of her attractive personality.

Until now my feelings are still stuck on her.

And I know that I'm not the only person going through this.

I know. I understand.

We all are trying to achieve a certain happiness that we want.

And the road to happiness is a very bumpy one.

Will you succeed?

IT'S UP TO YOU TO DECIDE.